If you perceive that there are patterns that you create within your life, things perhaps which you do not prefer in any way shape or form which seem to quote unquote keep coming around, keep coming back, in that sense are a redundancy.
You may understand, by extension from the aforementioned analogy, and in no uncertain terms, that that redundancy, that repetition, is a message from your Higher Self.
Your willingness to say, "Oh my goodness, here that comes again, woe is me." does not allow you to use and identify, first of all, the redundancy, but second of all the message. It fixates you in what you may call victimhood, “Oh everything happens to me.", rather than allowing you to use ALL your creations in a positive way.
Individuals seem more than willing to use the positive seeming creations in a positive way, but your line is drawn many times when you find that there is a redundancy of seemingly negative occurrences, “Well I created the positive, but I would never create the negative."
This particular attitude is, perhaps you can say, only taking half of the responsibility of creating your reality and you truly do create it ALL.