sense every perspective is valid, what should I do if another person's perspective is that my perspective is so different from theirs that I need to be attacked or if there are two completely contrary opinions about the way a very specific situation should be handled how do you validate both perspectives when only one can be acted out?
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Understanding that if you are feeling "attacked" and personalising it, you may want to look at what beliefs you may still be holding onto that have created this experience. Remember, this i is your reality and all others are extentions of your consciousness. One thing I learned along my journey, is that all truths are valid, and I am only sharing my perspective, which is not more or less valid, then theirs. And I also recognized that "others" simply need to be heard and akcnowledged. Holding both views as valid, may allow a more seamless experience, for you.
You cannot change anyone else's beliefs, but can allow them to exist alongside yours. As far as action, you have your beautiful inner guidance system for that. You ultimately follow your truth, and one day, you will notice more alignment from that person/people. It is their fears that they are working on. It's a tough "soup" we are in, but it's all valid experiences, to learn more about yourself. Much love on your journey.
To navigate situations involving conflicting perspectives where only one action seems viable, consider the following:
Recognize All Perspectives Are Reflections: Each viewpoint is a valid expression of the infinite whole. The perspective of the other being reflects a version of the whole that is unique to their experience and beliefs.
Ground in Your Core Truth: Identify what resonates most deeply with your sense of joy and authenticity. Decisions made from alignment with your true self create coherent and empowering outcomes.
Communicate with Integrity and Clarity: If the other perspective involves hostility, as in your example of someone feeling justified in attacking your view, respond from a space of calm and firm authenticity. Non-resistance to their perception often dissolves tension.
Consider the Intersection of Perspectives: In situations requiring a single action, explore whether both perspectives share any common goals or values. This intersection can form the basis of a compromise or innovative solution.
Take Decisive Action with Trust: Remember, every choice is an act of trust in a particular reality. Choose the action that aligns with your desired vibration of peace, authenticity, or joy, knowing that it will ripple through your experience to shape outcomes that serve all involved.
By holding space for both perspectives without resistance, while consciously deciding on an action aligned with your excitement and integrity, you create a pathway that honors all participants while moving forward effectively. ✨💖
I can only advise that, if that person attacks you, that you do not condone that action, by attacking back. Instead, say that you understand their perspective (calmly), and then share yours (calmly). For a while, you may not be able to agree. But if you keep being calm, just maintain that frequency, eventually something, a new solution will open up. But you need to maintain that intention throughout... trust this helps you somehow..