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Hi Blaire:) I love you too. You too Dear Penny, I miss you both.

So, If I made the statement that you live in a safe universe would you find that hard to believe? Took me a while to get to that one.

After all, it appears that we are soft sensitive squishy and thrust into a world filled with sharp pointy things, fire, rocks, blasting radiation and countless other things not conducive to life, yet here we are. Just as easy to believe we are safe rather than not and if beliefs create the reality you experience...then.......

Also, look within for denials of yourself you may still be holding onto... they can be tricky as the tendency is to deny that they are even there, but they will show themselves if you ask them to. Fear not. They cover the deepest Love.

Until rather recently, I had a lot of fears surrounding my existence... some still rear their heads from time to time but those are the times to examine those particular ones.

I'd love to feel fearless, to be fearless for I know how crippling it can be to live in a neuotic state for I can litterally be afraid of anything if I choose to. Shadows? YIKES!!!

The less fear I have the better I feel, the less I feel compelled to ruminate over past hurts and dread an impending doom that never seems to arrive.

Fear, like anger can be a signal and a rush to align is how I'm looking at it now.

I still deal with fear but I'm looking at it differently.

So guys, I lost my Louise last week (well, I didn't really lose her at all, but that's another story) and a new crop of fears sprung up...so many things to fear from her safety to my sons wellbeing to "What will become of ME? Ahhh... day at atime, moment by moment, work through it and choose Love-Wisdom-Truth above all things. Release the fascination with hell based realities and rest in the arms of Love.

We are all safe.

Broadcast THAT my friends.

So, regarding the trans experience, kudos to you for exploring that. I admire you for your expression and willingness to be more of who you really are...but who you really are goes far beyond externals and any gender yes? Elan tells us we contain it all, I think he is right.

That said, I know you would find comfort and freedom in my company no matter how you are dressed and I know I'm not the only one who feels like that, so carry that with you as you walk down the street.

I've been in similar situations!! I used to be in similar dynamics but just realized, in a sort of self-loving way, sometimes a situation can serve as a reflection that allows me to learn more unconditional love for OTHERS, and other times a situation serves more in learning unconditional love for SELF. That unconditional self-love means recognizing when a relationship is no longer conducive for mutual, authentic, empowering connection because the other being is incapable of meeting you there.

Just serving as a reflection and example, the Sassani will happily share their energy authentically with someone experiencing negativity, having their own challenges. There's no need to run away because somebody else's challenges are not YOUR challenges; there's no need at all to leave a positive state yourself. But sometimes, being in a positive state means simply leaving the room.

Perhaps that distance or choice to positively, in integrity (recognizing all as one while honoring them as an equally spiritual, Source being as you fundamentally) place a boundary is where the growth opportunity is. In the space that leaves, a more positive, conducive, empowering connection can come.

Sometimes self-love means to leave a thing that simply doesn't align with your preference. Self-love doesn't have to mean remaining with something you don't prefer figuring out how to make it seem preferable. To hold space, to see with unconditional love and the eyes of Source, does not mean you have to enjoy being disrespected, but instead empowers you to recognize you need not experience that lack of freedom, lack of power, lack of self-worth that the other person is reflecting from themselves to you. Because you don't act disrespectfully if you feel free, empowered, or as worthy of love as you truly are. Those two states exist on different wavelengths.

Asking yourself what ur highest excitement, passion, calling, or whatever is the most attractive thing for you in this situation, then doing your best to live what you find resonates in that --- is maybe the best thing! You have my support if you feel like you need some encouragement to put up a boundary with someone whose energy/behavior you neutrally don't prefer.

Elan and Bashar have said before that anger is a rush of alignment energy that brings you strongly to your preference. It's natural, for the stage of our consciousness and exploration we're at, to feel anger. Then we can let that energy flow and live out its natural life cycle by recognizing we're free to act on our highest preference and there's never, ever, ever a need to judge or fear or resist bc we experience an emotion like that.

You got this Ezinu!! ^^. All the best <3