Negative beliefs

Hey Ady.

We're going to answer this in some detail. Please take the time to really absorb this. Your questions are worth answering. However, as a question is actually answered, look to incorporate the answers into your life and experience the real results. This will answer a lot of your remaining questions from within. This board is truly here for more walk, less talk. Although we always invite new talk ... after the new walking.

Making ET contact more possible is actually achieved in a way that may seem to be counter-intuitive at first. The first step is to fully embrace your life here, as a human, on Earth. This is because on a fundamental level, you CHOSE to be here. This is a challenging concept for a lot of people to embrace because many times, under the surface, people want to connect with ET's because they are not having good relationships down here on Earth, or because they do not even like it here on Earth much. When this is the case, people will reach out to ET's to fill a hole that has been created by their own disdain for many of the negative qualities that also exist here on this Earth. People reach out to be saved, healed, and even "beamed up" to escape. The thing is, ET's always know the difference. They know when an individual is fully realized, loving life down here, fully and purposefully expressing the positive aspects of the human condition, and vibrating at a frequency that is high enough for them to connect to in any meaningful way. And they know when an individual is just saying they are whole, versus when they ARE being whole and just wanting to dance together, as equals, with them as that whole being. One cannot fool them, even if one is still fooling themself.

We remind you of two important things.

1. As your awareness expands due to these insights being shared, true expanded awareness radiates out in all directions. We become more aware of both the positive and the negative because both polarities are part of the foundational definition of this linear finite 3D Earth experience. However just because you're also more aware of the negative, this does not have to mean that you actually experience any of it first hand. What you put out is always what you get back. If you keep yourself aligned to your truest self, by choosing from what is available in every given moment with your excitement, and only acting on the most exciting option with integrity, you will only be putting out a purely positive frequency. The integrity portion of that equation assures that integrated action is always only positive. So, you get only positive results when you act on your excitement with integrity. However, at this point where you only experience positivity firsthand, for a while longer, you'll still be aware of more negative as well, because that is the nature of true expansion. This awareness of negativity will be through the experiences of others. And it may be quite intense, and to be fully disclosing, quite heartbreaking, in the coming days. The trick is to keep your own output positive even in the face of witnessing this. This allows you to always continue to be of the greatest service in ways that may not always seem obvious to you. And, while you expressing your most authentic positive self, you are automatically being the most responsible to those others, in the most efficient and perfect way.

2. If you are acting from a foundation of lack of unconditional self-love, then everything in your outer reality will continue to reflect that, until you own it and change it. There's no escaping this. The Universe must believe that reality would not complete without you, or you would not be here. Period. You did not have to do anything or "earn" your existence, so it is clearly unconditional. All-That-Is loves you unconditionally always has and always will. People who do not love themselves unconditionally have been brain-washed by people in their past. Many have been taught that you are only loved if you earn it or fill someone else's conditions. This is conditional love. Once a person understands that this was a learned response, they can own it. Once you own that, you can change it and instead replace it with the unconditional love of All-That-Is just described. Then EVERYTING CHANGES.

So, its vital to get your expressed beliefs in alignment with your truest desires to express yourself as the frequency that can comfortable interact with ET's. Once you are expressing yourself as a being that has chosen to be here, is embracing and living your life fully and with authenticity, your frequency becomes very high.

Therefore, the first step to contact with ET's is to weed out any beliefs that you are expressing which result in feeling, unloved, unsupported, lonely, isolated, unseen, unheard, angry, resentful, judgement and plain sad. Rejoice when you find a belief that you are expressing which no longer serves you because only owning it first, allows you to change it

Once you allow your emotions to deliver each of these remaining obsolete beliefs to you and you acknowledge and own them, only then you can change. them.

When one does own these limiting obsolete beliefs the question arise, "So now how can I change them?" Glad you asked, enter stage left, Elan:

Watch this, try the exercise that is being clearly demonstrated, APPLY it to YOUR beliefs and go out and live as the new you, watch it work in your life, not only in your mind. This will take some time, days or weeks. This is your next step, not immediately asking more questions because the results of this will answer a lot of your questions. And another reminder, questions are just answers that you already know but are placing outside of yourself in order to receive outer validation anyway. LIVING this way, letting life weed out the rest of your obsolete beliefs and replacing them using this simple technique, one by one, will put you where you keep saying you want to be. Then, and only then, will you will be primed for first contact.

What we are co-creating here on this forum is truly a ... participation sport. This board is not only here to ask many questions. It is here to absorb, apply, DO new things in your life, reality-test these messages, and THEN come back and discuss things AFTER you've gotten new results. That way, this board is being truly different than other Forums, which we believe it really is. Please go DO this next. Thank you.