Waking Dream: Blueprinting

Hi Elan! Hope you are well. Thank you Elan's team for creating this space.

I am drawn to the Waking dream: blueprinting.

I want to better understand the ratios between our chosen life theme (foundation?), our choices, and random chances.

We were told by Sassanis that life is truly meaningless: We get to determine what it means to us. Yet it is also told to us that we chose to be here, with a life theme that we decided amongst our soul group and on personal soul basis, before we crystalized into this new reality.

But there’s also the random aspect: we don’t/didn’t choose every single thing happening here.

For example, I am sensing that deciding on our parents has a lot more weight than what hair color I might be born with. So, like, designing my childhood has greater impact on exploring my life theme here vs… I hit my pinkie toe against my couch on Sunday afternoon (and I completely forget about it). Is that one the random aspect?

So… how much of all this "life" is 1. By our life theme, 2. Purely based on our choices from core beliefs, 3. By random chances? Maybe this is very personalized process for each individual soul, but I want to know, if you could, whether there’s a general perimeter we can learn to understand ourselves better while on Earth.

Really hoping that the question made sense. Truly appreciate you, Elan!