Hello Elan,
I have a question for a new book about emotions.
Essasani teachings suggest that we need to discover our beliefs and then simply change them into preferred beliefs.
This sounds practical and logical, yet as humans, we tend to experience a wide range of emotions, and emotions are complex and multilayered. Sometimes I wonder do other beings in the universe even have experience of emotions like we do.
We also participate in all kinds of energetic exchanges from talking to kissing, etc + night dreams, and many things we are not maybe aware of. We pick up a lot of emotions we are not necessarily aware of, emotions that are maybe not ours yet we are exposed to them, or they are but we weren't allowed to express it. How this energy exchange, emotions, and subconscious are related? Can you tell us more about this? Seems this is one of the self-imposed prisons. How does one let himself out?
Also, often when we discover what we believe in, and choose differently, unrecognized pain/pain we are not aware of/emotion tends to repeat and manifest - and give us more reason to feel that energy. Also, from my experience, some of these things kind of become part of our energetic field, something we hold onto without even knowing. My recent experience is that one of those "big emotions" /collective experience is anger. We see the manifestation of that energy in many ways and forms. Many people have many reasons/experiences that caused them to feel anger and no matter how much they work on themselves, choose their preferences, or change beliefs, "big emotions"/collective themes like anger will manifest reasons to be angry. It seems to me that we are not really taught how to deal with emotions, yet we are emoting like crazy and I guess that's why we are kind of crazy.
For example, most women are very angry at men. Consciously or unconsciously. Forgiveness is the key, yet it seems you cannot really forgive and release until you acknowledge what you hold as emotion, yet some of them you got through DNA for example and cannot trace as your own creation or experience. I am not sure that discovering what we believe in releases this energy/like emotion of anger that is clearly manifesting in many ways so we can see it. If I discover "oh I believe in anger" now i choose love it seems it's not really happening until you acknowledge that anger and how hurt, dissapointed you are..all that stuff that caused suffering. It simply need to be acknowledged and felt, it requires cuddle, soothing. Can you give us your perspective, or form of healing modality, especially when we are dealing with collective themes, but not our Truth so to speak or for our highest good? how do we integrate these polarities and do the alchemy of transmuting anger, pain, hurt, suffering into love when physical experience keep offering unlove? How do make healthy boundaries, and does Love truly need boundaries? How do we heal our heart from centuries of collective pain, like women on entire planet experienced for example?
And perhaps offer some advice for humans who are navigating strong emotions? I would greatly appreciate any co-creation or expansion on this topic.
Thank you,
Thank You,
Malla_Mi
The answers will be very interesting. Guaranteed. We're seeing small samples and they will address this and push these personal transformations quickly forward.
These are GREAT posts. These are important questions and we believe what Andrew is looking to ask Elan are questions that demonstrate instances where the messages have been put into action, results have been achieved, and further clarification is necessary to provide refinement. This is really what we're all looking for, being that we've heard many of the same questions asked in slightly different wording, over and over and over again. These are the very high quality type of question that will help to make certain that the new book breaks "new ground." THANK YOU BOTH. Be aware that the questions chosen may be edited and sometimes mildly paraphrased to be concise, express simple clarity, and provide impact, without losing the really important main points being asked about. BRAVO. Keep them coming.
For I don’t remember how many’th time, again, i submit to synchronicity. I love this post because it speaks for me too. Thank you for asking this question. I have been grappling with anger or hurt or both or more for so long now.
I see what Bashar says. That anger is here to show me in that moment what is in disharmony. I must bring myself to see that it is not my prefered experience and yet it is here so it must serve me. Once it has served its purpose of bringing the disharmony to my awareness, its work is done. I must visit the belief that has brought this event to pass and thank it, use it, use its energy up and see it as a neutral thing. And I am so grateful to him for that insight. And it works. From how I understand, he also says that anything longer than a few seconds of anger (which is here to do what it is here show to you) is a choice and is therefore self inflicted. My struggle is that i arrive at peace and keep losing it. Like i see the point and forget that i have seen the point. On certain days its deep grief that i need to remove from my cellular memory by the way of tears.. on other days its the same grief standing upside down as anger.
I accept that the beliefs that don’t serve me and have not been changed will come back to me to have themselves changed. On a few days i feel like a victim of my beliefs.. but then i go to sleep. It’s as if i am so exhausted my head has run out of gas. It feels like surrender form the other end :) When i wake up, 10 out of 10 times, I arrive at a place where i am truly in gratitude for their existence. I am able to teach myself that they (the beliefs) also must want to upgrade to my new preference and are begging for a change.
The tool, that you commit that you’re not the same person, and are functioning from a different place who has more options available to them and that being angry is also a neutral (equally valid) choice just not the one you prefer, really works. And i see that it WORKS but i feel i need sooooooooo much practice to make it my nature. The habit is taking so much time to die, Mili. I’d prefer so much more speed. 😂
It’s as if i have to keep lifting the same dumbbell. Countless reps and sets to see the muscle bulk. But i know that the first rep was the day everything changed. The muscle bulk will show. It has to. I know it is there, the commitment to reps are how you change the outer fabric slowly, steadily.
It’s tiring but extremely exciting work. We will do it together ❤️
I can’t wait to read Elan’s/ Bashar’s response to this question in the next book.
PS - checking from the corner of the eye.. if things have changed .. doesn’t work😂
Trust.. just trust!
Love
V